This simple checklist can help measure how you are nurturing your relationships.
The Gift of Listening. But you must really listen. Don't interrupt, don't daydream, and don't plan your response. Just listen.
The Gift of AffectionBe generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.
The Gift of LaughterClip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."
The Gift of SolitudeThere are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone.Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
The Gift of a FavourEvery day, go out of your way to do something kind. Good deeds are cool.
The Gift of a Written NoteIt can be a simple "Thanks for your help" note, or a longer expression of your appreciation for that person being in your life. A brief handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime.
The Gift of a ComplimentA simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job," or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.
The Gift of a Cheerful DispositionThe easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone.
These are eight important ways we can contribute toward whole and healthy relationships. They cost nothing, yet they may well be the most valuable gifts we can ever offer another person.
Phil Evans
